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S1 E12: Why Do Family Gatherings Feel So Complicated?

S1 E12: Why Do Family Gatherings Feel So Complicated?

Update: 2025-07-31
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This episode includes discussion of domestic violence and the loss of a parent. Please take care while listening. If these topics are sensitive or activating for you, feel free to skip this one or listen when you feel emotionally safe.

In this episode of 'Motherhood and the Messy Middle', Robin and Nicole explore the complex emotions and dynamics that surface during family gatherings. From joy and nostalgia to tension and drama, family events can stir a mix of feelings. Robin shares a personal story about a recent family function, reflecting on her intricate family history, including the loss of her mother and father, and how these experiences shape her interactions. Nicole discusses the absence of large family gatherings in her life and the impact on her children. The conversation delves into the importance of sitting with discomfort, emotional maturity, and maintaining family connections despite challenges. They emphasize finding beauty and healing within the messiness of family life. The episode offers listeners comfort, relatability, and practical insights on managing the beautiful chaos of family functions.

00:00 Introduction: Emotions at Family Gatherings

00:52 Meet the Hosts: Robin and Nicole

01:40 Robin's Family Dynamics

02:48 Nicole's Family Dynamics

05:34 Complex Family Histories

11:11 Navigating Family Gatherings

18:36 Reflections on Loss and Privilege

29:16 Emotional Growth and Boundaries

31:05 Conclusion: Embracing the Messy Middle

32:39 Outro and Resources



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S1 E12: Why Do Family Gatherings Feel So Complicated?

S1 E12: Why Do Family Gatherings Feel So Complicated?

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