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S1 E2- Why Do I Miss Someone Who Treated Me Badly? |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series

S1 E2- Why Do I Miss Someone Who Treated Me Badly? |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series

Update: 2025-09-12
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They lied.

They ignored you.

They manipulated you.

They didn’t choose you.


And yet… your heart still misses them.

Why?


In this deep, Spirit-led episode, we uncover why our souls often cling to the very people who hurt us most. From trauma bonds to unmet needs to confusing pain with love, this conversation will help you make sense of the ache — and begin to break free from it.


You are not crazy. You are not weak. You’re just healing — and God is with you through it all.



00:00 – Welcome back to Love, Heartbreak & Healing

02:20 – The paradox of missing someone who mistreated you

06:00 – Trauma bonds explained in simple language

10:45 – Why “sometimes good moments” keep us hooked

13:30 – Familiar pain vs healthy love — why we choose dysfunction

17:15 – “Do I miss them… or do I miss how they made me feel?”

20:10 – Practical steps to untangle from toxic attachments

23:45 – Honest prayers to pray when you still feel tied to them

27:00 – God’s heart for your healing and freedom

29:30 – Outro + preview of Episode 3: “When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt”


🎙️ Healing is possible. Freedom is real.

Click the link in bio to listen now.

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S1 E2- Why Do I Miss Someone Who Treated Me Badly? |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series

S1 E2- Why Do I Miss Someone Who Treated Me Badly? |Love, Heartbreak & Healing Series

Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun