What does success look like? 

Don't be the titanic, stop comparing yourself to the images of your friends lives they keep sharing on social media. Stop comparing yourself to the idea's that you have in your head that you have not completed or reached yet. You are a bad ass.

It sounds cliche I know but it is good to have goals. Coming from my experience you will never be happy if you keep comparing your iceberg to your neighbors, because at the end of the day, it will always be the cause to a sinking ship.