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S2E41 - When Someone Dies: What to Say to Your Child and How to Say It

S2E41 - When Someone Dies: What to Say to Your Child and How to Say It

Update: 2025-04-171
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In this episode, I talk about how to have honest, age-appropriate conversations with your child when a death occurs—especially when it’s sudden and unexpected. I walk through how to talk to children in a way that gives them truth without overwhelming them, and why sparing them from information often does more harm than good.

I also explain how grief looks different in children than in adults, how developmental stages impact the grieving process over time, and how to support your child through those recurring waves. I share practical suggestions for closure, guidance on when to seek therapy, and how to respond neutrally to tough questions so your child feels safe continuing the conversation.

Episode References:
How to be truthful with your kids, even when the truth is hard!
https://www.playtherapyparenting.com/how-to-be-truthful-with-your-kids-even-when-the-truth-is-hard/

Ask Me Questions:  Call ‪(813) 812-5525‬, or email: brenna@thekidcounselor.com
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Common References:
Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge.
Bratton, S. C., Landreth, G. L., Kellam, T., & Blackard, S. R. (2006). Child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) treatment manual: A 10-session filial therapy model for training parents. Routledge/Taylor & Francis Group.

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S2E41 - When Someone Dies: What to Say to Your Child and How to Say It

S2E41 - When Someone Dies: What to Say to Your Child and How to Say It

Dr. Brenna Hicks