Hello, my little sausages. Welcome back to another episode, please, if you haven't already. Grab yourself a brew or get your walking shoes on and get outside. Because today we are talking about something that I talk about in my programme, the secure and confident woman in love, which is the concept of outsourcing and self-sourcing your feelings. So it's gonna be a good un!!

Back in the day - when I was still in my 30s - raving it up on the house party scene and generally acting like a bit of a nutcase - dating and men were a very toxic area of my life.

I crashed from dating no one and swearing off men altogether to entertaining any guy that showed me the slightest bit of interest - and something that I did all the time - which is what I am talking about in today's pod episode - is what I now know as outsourcing.

If you find yourself caught in any of these thought loops when you’re dating someone:

• Do they like me?


• What does that action or what does that text mean?


• What do I have to do to get the outcome I want?


• When will they text?


• How can I get them to ask me out again?


• How do I need to act to get them to like me?

This one is for you.

In this episode, I explore the concept of outsourcing vs self-sourcing your worth and feelings of safety and security- the impact that has when you date - especially in the beginning stages - the power of learning how to be a self-sourcer and how this is connected to your masculine and feminine energy.

My intention by sharing this deep insight is to put you more in the driver's seat of your life and love life - to show you the path to getting what you want by going deeply inwards, understanding yourself on the deepest level and doing the inner work so that you can let go of the stuff that is currently getting in the darn way of you and your desires.

Mentioned in the episode:

The secure and Confident in Love Program Opening for Enrolment Soon

The Love Life Stratagyzer

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