S3 Ep. 32 Fellowship with Ben

S3 Ep. 32 Fellowship with Ben

Update: 2025-11-09
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Today we’re chatting with Ben! In this episode, we explore how Ben went from a youth role model as the son of a renowned conservative Christadelphian preacher to pushing the limits of even the most liberal Christadelphians before leaving. Raised in a conservative branch of Christadelphia, Ben was told that some of their family had “left the faith” but was surprised to discover that there were actually just attending other, less conservative, Christadelphian ecclesias nearby! Even at Ben’s baptism, which surprisingly morphed into a roast, Ben defied convention by asking a member of the “Shield” group to baptism them  at a “Logos” hall as Ben began to resist the labels and expectations they had been raised with. Throughout the episode, Ben and I also discuss Christadelphian music. From singing our favorite songs from “Fruit of Our Lips” to discussing what instruments and songs were allowed to be played to learning about their incredibly popular music nights at SCYP, we dive into what was a pivotal moment in Christadelphian music as Ben and their contemporaries created new music that pushed the limits and was even met with walk-outs and bullying. As a singer-songwriter, Ben left a lasting legacy on Christadelphian music as their songs continue to be popular in the present day. However, most Christadelphians probably don’t know that one of their favorite songs was written by a gay man and a non-binary person who both left the faith! We also talk about puppet plays, the Portland frog, and their experience helping create a LGBTQ affirming evangelical church in New York City.


 


Listener discretion advised.


 If you’re interested in coming on the podcast or have comments or questions, you can contact Zinnia at lifeafterleavingpodcast@gmail.com


Resources and References:


 


Left handedness and sexual orientation


 


Fruit of our Lips CD (2002)


 


El Shaddai (Youtube)


 


As the Deer (unable to find CD Version)


 


A New Commandment (Youtube) 


 


Shout


Living Moving Being


Wonder


Every day


Songs in a strange land


Endless


 


Sydney Christadelphian Young People


 


Flamy Grant 


 


Bible Belt Baby (Spotify)


 


Drag Queen Album Tops Christian Music Charts


 


Hymnary.org


School of Rock


 


Christadelphian Art Trust


 


Yahweh's Youth from Living Moving Being (Youtube)


 


Purple Worship Book


 


Worship Books Audio


 


With All My Heart by Ben Grace, Worship Vol 1 Track 88


 


Rob Bell and the Mars Hill Church


 


Velvet Elvis by Rob Bell


 


Blue Like Jazz by Donald Miller


 


David Crowder


 


Hurricane/ Superstorm Sandy


 


The Liturgists Podcast


 


Secular Humanism


 


What is Christian Nationalism


 


The Danger of Christian Nationalism


 


Christian Nationalism is neither Christian nor Patriotic


 


Experts Discuss Christian Nationalism 


 


The Portland Frog : 


ICE Protest Frogs Have a Long History 


Frogs For Peace: How the Portland Frog Became a Symbol of Resistance and Hope


 


 


It’s a Wonderful Life Movie (1946)


 


It’s a Wonderful Life and World War II


 


Sean Feucht


 


Jane Goodall's Final Message to the World


 


Audrey Hepburn: “To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow”


 


Heathen Happy Hour Podcast


 


Story and Tune 


 


Purity Culture Trauma


 


Purity Culture Support


 


“Wild Geese” by Mary Oliver


 


Learning to Walk in the Dark by Barbara Brown Taylor


 


Ben Grace Music


 


Ben Grace Music (IG) 


 


As if Words Could Heal the Wounds


 


Ex Mormon Bookclub Podcast


 


Ben Grace: Naked and Unashamed Podcast Episode 


 


As if Words Could Heal the Wounds Podcast

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S3 Ep. 32 Fellowship with Ben

S3 Ep. 32 Fellowship with Ben

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