In this enlightening episode, host Dr. Dave Peltz and Dr. Joe Hamlett welcome guest Ernelita “Ernie” Dacumos—an international speaker, coach, and former healthcare professional—to explore the essence of self-confidence in women. Ernie defines confidence as knowing your worth, capabilities, and intrinsic value—without needing to compare yourself or seek approval—especially in a world saturated with social media’s idealized images. She candidly shares her own transformation from a shy, insecure immigrant battling culture shock, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome, to becoming a confident introvert through self-discovery, reflection, boundary-setting, and embracing one’s unique strengths. Ernie also addresses the often-overlooked dynamic of women feeling they must compete rather than collaborate, and offers practical advice on fostering healthy relationships among women and allies: learn who you are, reflect on progress, set boundaries, and accept support without compromising authenticity.JONSOP https://jonsop.comjonsopdr2@gmail.com Ernelita Dacumosernieodacumos@gmail.comhttps://confidentlyyou.club/Book: https://a.co/d/dkgy4JYDr. Joe Hamlett ⁠dr.joehamlett@gmail.com⁠ http:/www.leading2changeconsulting.com ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/drjoehamlett/⁠ http:/www.leading2changeconsulting.com/linkinbio/ Dr. Dave Peltz ⁠PeltzCS@outlook.com⁠ ⁠https://www.PeltzConsultingServices.com/services⁠ ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-david-peltz-phd/⁠ https://tinyurl.com/DrDavePeltz Music intro & Outro provided by David T. Peltz, Owner of Peltz Tech Services, ⁠david@peltztech.com⁠ Copyright © 2025 - Journeys Of Not So Ordinary People, All Rights Reserved