Doesn't sound so lighthearted does it? Yet somehow we manage to laugh at our own silliness and stupidity. Yeah we've let go of a LOT of baggage over the years. And we recognize that having our own backs might be the best love we can get. Self Love.  We also like changing our minds. And choosing, choosing, choosing. What's yummy for you in this 10 seconds? You can change your mind in the next 10 seconds. And then are you really self sabotaging? Or are you self loving?