What happens when a wife feels invisible for 23 years? 

In this episode, Adam uncovers the truth behind their broken marriage. From gambling addiction and emotional neglect to the deep longing for intimacy and trust, this raw coaching session reveals what it really takes to heal wounds that have been buried for decades.

Topics Covered:

👉 How gambling addiction led to separation and divorce

👉 Emotional neglect and the feeling of being “not enough”

👉 Why emotional intimacy is essential—especially for women

👉 The avoidant brain and fear of emotional sharing

👉 Modeling accountability and apologizing to children

👉 The difference between promises and true transformation

👉 Building trust through transparency and accountability

👉 Gratitude, humility, and support systems in healing

👉 Requirements for reconnection: safety, intimacy, trust, no secrets

👉 A five-month roadmap toward rebuilding connection and peace

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