We are a son of the Most High God.
Our identity as men is often centered around the things that are a distraction away from our assignment.
Things that give us respect, significance and recognition,  basically things that stroke our ego.
We don't need any of those things because Grace has connected me directly to GOD, and GOD has named me his child
Finding your assignment in order to find your identity will always lead to a hole that is never filled. Alignment of our firm identity in Jesus IS the rock that makes us unmovable and unshakeable in the storms of life.