It can feel very natural to let a man lead. There are also times when a person who’s often in a leadership position wants a break from that and it’s a nice change of pace. So, the question is, how do we know when to lead and when to allow our partner to take the initiative? 

Women need to feel a sense of safety in any kind of intimacy, but guys tend to jump the gun and skip the part about learning who she is, what she’s about, and what she really likes and wants. 

When it comes down to it, leadership is:

• Communication
• Being attuned to your partner
• A dance between the 2 of you
• Respectful and kind

Leadership is not:

• Coercion
• Forceful
• Manipulation

If any of this hit a nerve with you, now is a good time to start doing the inner work on yourself to figure out what you really want and how to communicate it.

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