This is a big question that we work with all the time. Unfortunately, people tend to know more of what they don’t want than what they do want. So, how can we figure out what we like and what we want?

It may be as simple as opening up the conversation about trying new things with your partner and creating the safe environment for that. This isn’t the same thing as telling them what you want to try - this needs to be a conversation of intimate curiosity.

Boundaries are not:

• Listing off rules
• Defensive self-protection

Think about what your ideal experience is. Sit in curiosity with yourself and look at what you are available for, and what you are not available for. You are responsible for manifesting these things, or lack of things, in your life.

Learn more about working with us at gettingoffwithnatalieandrocky.com!

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