Wondering what the signs of a healthy relationship are for Christian boyfriends or girlfriends?  Would you even be able to spot that good catch of a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend when they come into your sights? Recently, several singles sat down and came up with the following top seven signs you are in the right relationship with your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend:

Top 7 Great Signs of a healthy relationship



* Jesus is the most important person in their lives. Remember, if a Christian girlfriend or boyfriend loves the Lord above all, she or he will also be able to love you with more passion and purity.

* They have a network of loving relationships. Jesus said we can identify people by the fruit of their lives. If your prospective Christian boyfriend or girlfriend has had dysfunctional or unloving relationships with most of the closest people around him (i.e.: parents, friends, ex-girlfriends, etc.), what makes you think that your dating relationship will fare any better? Conversely, if they have great relationships already formed, you pretty much know you are dealing with a caring person capable of commitment and intimacy.

* They speak the truth in love. Many of us have had the unfortunate experience of dealing with boyfriends or girlfriends who are liars and cheaters. As we wrote elsewhere, the ideal soul mate will be able to lovingly express the truth to you, even when it hurts.

* They don’t hold grudges. 1 Corinthians 13:5 states love keeps no record of wrong. The fact is, we’re all gonna be need forgiveness now and again in all our relationships. If your Christian boyfriend or girlfriend finds it hard to show forgiveness and keep harping on wrongs done, chances are this is not the dating match for you.

* They are faith-filled optimists and love having fun. Did you ever notice how contagious light-hearted people are? Life is hard at times, but hanging around a Christian boyfriend or girlfriend who empathizes with the positive goes a long way.

* Shared Values and Vision. Common goals and aligned values, especially about faith, family, and the future, lay the groundwork for a unified journey ahead. A healthy relationship sees both partners working towards the same vision and supporting each other’s missions.

*  Reciprocal Affection and Care. The relationship exudes tenderness, care, and genuine affection. There’s a balanced give-and-take, reflecting Philippians 2:3, which advises believers to consider others as more significant than oneself.

sign of a healthy relationship conclusion

While every relationship is unique and evolves in its own rhythm, these signs can serve as guiding principles for Christian singles. A healthy relationship is not about perfection but progression. As you navigate the world of dating and relationships, always turn to Scripture and prayer for guidance, ensuring that your romantic life aligns with God’s plan for you.

Remember,