How are boundaries set? Do y’all just be making stuff up, or is this some real issues you’ve had with people. I need to start setting some boundaries. 1. If you don’t deal with me, you CANNOT DEAL WITH MY KIDS. 2. Say what you need the first time, so there will be no need of the repetitive behavior. We can start there. FAMILY hall we need to start setting boundaries with family NOW or let they ass go. I’m learning this and so far IM LOVING IT