On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by the stunning and insightful Kristofer Inez Onyx, current Gay America Esquire 2025. We got into his pageant journey, what it means to serve with purpose, and how he's using his platform to uplift community. We also had some real talk about trust, transparency, and emotional maturity in queer spaces. And yes—this week’s Just the Tip was one to remember.

Show Notes:

• Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming

• Special guest: Kristofer Inez Onyx

  • Gay America Esquire 2025

  • Shared his journey in national pageantry and what motivates him to lead with intention

  • Talked about emotional intelligence, community building, and representation in the LGBTQ+ pageant world

• Housekeeping:

  • Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy

  • Merch available for patrons at all levels—stickers, mugs, tees, totes

  • Thanks to our Patreon supporters and season sponsor, WigsofaKind

• Let’s Talk About Us:

  • Freddy

    • Attended his kid’s school play

    • Rehearsals for Phoenix Fan Fusion

    • Yard work and pig house progress

  • Felicia

    • Hosted Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room

    • Reconnected with a group of birthday queens all born the same month and year—what a vibe

• Just the Tip:

  • Topic: How to build—and rebuild—trust

  • Trust requires consistency, not just apologies

  • Red flags, accountability, and learning how to move forward without rushing resolution

  • What transparency looks like in friendships, relationships, and community spaces

• Upcoming Shows & Events:

  • May 2 – Entice Burlesque in Tucson

  • May 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe

  • May 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)

  • May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room

  • June 5 – MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215

  • June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with Phoenix Fan Fusion badge)

  • June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan Fusion

  • September 4 – Sex Trivia Night returns to Gracie’s Tax Bar

• End of Show:

  • Huge thanks to Kristofer Inez Onyx for joining us and sharing his brilliance

  • Shoutout to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listeners

  • 15,000+ downloads and still growing

  • Join us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation

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