Mediumship is an art of navigating between worlds, and one crucial decision every medium faces is whether to "go direct" by connecting with specific spirits requested by clients or allow any spirit to come through naturally.

Have you ever hoped for that one text message from someone special or anticipated a call that would make your day? This same desire drives most clients seeking mediumship readings—they want connection with specific loved ones. The question for mediums becomes: should we target these specific connections or allow the strongest spiritual energies to come through first?

Going direct carries immense pressure. As a medium, attempting to connect with a specific spirit can trigger anxiety that actually lowers your vibration, making successful connections more difficult. Yet many skilled mediums excel at this approach, using the vibration of names and relationships to establish powerful links. Alternatively, "spiritual roulette" allows mediums to connect with spirits matching their own energetic frequency, building power quickly before attempting more challenging connections. This approach also gives your spirit team opportunities to expand your abilities by bringing through energies you might unconsciously avoid.

The drawback? Your personal biases as a medium can limit which spirits come through. If you're uncomfortable with certain types of passing or relationships, you might unintentionally block the very spirits your client needs to hear from most. The most effective approach often combines both methods: begin with an open connection to build your energy, then attempt the specific connection your client desires. This serves everyone—medium, spirit, and sitter—by creating optimal conditions for meaningful messages.

Whether you're developing your abilities or serving clients professionally, experiment with both approaches. Your spirit team will support you in growing beyond your comfort zone, and your readings will become richer and more impactful as a result. Trust the process and remember that your unique path in mediumship will continue evolving with each connection you make.

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