Still stuck, even after all the journaling, affirmations, and mindset hacks? You’re not alone — and you’re not crazy.I used to live and breathe self-help.I woke up at 4AM, visualized my dream life, repeated affirmations, lit the candles…And still felt empty.Then God told me something that shattered me — and changed everything:“You’re not broken because you’re not working hard enough. You’re broken because you’re working without Me.”This video is for every Christian caught in the trap of performance, hustle, and spiritual burnout.It’s not about self-improvement. It’s about self-surrender.You’ll learn: - Why the self-help movement leaves you feeling hollow - How Jesus and the gospel completely flip self-help culture upside down - What Dietrich Bonhoeffer saw coming decades ago - Why surrender, not striving, is the key to transformation👇 Drop a 🔥 in the comments if this hits home.Resources:📓 Principles to Practice Journal (Scripture → Strategy) → https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Practice-Journal-Scripture-Strategy/dp/B0FTM2Z87W/ref=sr_1_1?crid=24KWHPJ7L0EWA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.g7DnxTQdKgrgN2QKiRaEPJ9YJDDua2HxDEUk6pzi-tNxn2zC0ME8NLHvwwQiGSQ--wjTDVpHMDtqa6Z40eWKBk-XJ8Dw6i3R6KToeG2_tjG2cvvI7qAxPl7BSE0ipC03DBOdIy46-dY_ozDSFev0WtPVQBipODzFlXODuW8YZW5Xz68mmQ8uelxJX4sZlgOEvyl73VrerGDz3p-XXrbz_34fU5SiQ-lX8tW-3mpY33Q.3Rjd4ORNUvJMx_94AACYgOCRRQ_YoqjOoARo0SYwwPY&dib_tag=se&keywords=principle+to+practice+journal&qid=1761849432&sprefix=princple+to+practice+journal%2Caps%2C111&sr=8-1 🤝 1:1 Coaching with Coach Red → https://forms.gle/GeAX16nH1rtpBiJr7 🙏 Subscribe for weekly faith + psychology tools to help Christian men win at home and walk in true identity.00:00 Introduction: The Truth About Self-Help00:28 Personal Journey: From Self-Help to Self-Surrender01:19 The Gospel vs. Self-Help Culture03:07 Bonhoeffer's Insights on Self-Surrender04:23 The Power of Grace and Transformation06:11 The Call to Surrender and Spiritual Transformation09:16 Conclusion: Embrace Spiritual TransformationWHO AM IHey, I'm Red Wallace, a former rapper(10 year career) current drummer turned personal development coach. Through podcast(mostly on YouTube) and 1on1/group coaching, I provide guidance to help you chisel away the parts that aren’t you revealing your true identity, empowering you to live your God given purpose!