We all have an optimal level of structure that works best for us in each situation in which we find ourselves.  

For me, focusing on accepting myself and being conscious and accepting of the joy that I am, is the optimal level of structure.  If I'm happy and joyful, then as far as I'm concerned, I have everything of value.

There is the joy of being at peace.  That joy inspires me to pay all my bills on time because I experience to joy of being at peace when all my bills are paid on time.  There is joy in "being there" for others.  It gives me the opportunity to express and more powerfully experience the joy and compassion I am.

All the practical aspects of living are taken care of by focusing on joy and acting on the thoughts imbued with joy.

I offer thought coaching. You can schedule a free introductory session by contacting me at scottfriedman40@gmail.com

My books are available on Amazon.  You can find links to the books on my website, www.thoughtcoachingbyscott.com