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The 3 Basic Bitch Tips That are Changing My Sex Life After Kids

The 3 Basic Bitch Tips That are Changing My Sex Life After Kids

Update: 2025-06-03
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Flirting with the D-word (Divorce)? Or just feeling like roommates with a mortgage and a laundry pile that never ends? So many couples are experiencing the same thing, but they don’t have the secret sauce I’ll share in this episode. 

Today we are talking all about the small, not-so-sexy things that make a massive difference. I’m talking:
✨ Undivided attention (yes, even for 3 minutes)
✨ Actually using your words (thank you, Daniel Tiger)
✨ Shutting your mouth instead of offering solutions (it’s a challenge, I know)

We get real about why parenting is a full-contact emotional sport and how these basic tools can stop your love life from flatlining. Because sometimes, saving your relationship isn’t about a big grand gesture—it’s about a six-second kiss and actually listening when your partner says “look at this meme.”

In this episode, we cover:
🔸 What "returning bids for attention" actually looks like in a busy house
🔸 How narrating your intentions can change your sex life
🔸 Why biting your tongue might be your new love language
🔸 A meditation on presence, love, and why your opinions aren’t always helpful

Ready to go from “just surviving” to “mmm that feels nice”? Grab my Roommates to Romance Challenge—a 7-day guided journey back to touch, connection, and that juicy “we’re doing this together” vibe. Just $15, and it’s yours anytime.

💌 Grab it here.
If this hit home, send it to your overworked, overtouched, under-romanced BFF. And hit follow so you never miss an episode.

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The 3 Basic Bitch Tips That are Changing My Sex Life After Kids

The 3 Basic Bitch Tips That are Changing My Sex Life After Kids

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