In this episode, 25-weeks pregnant, we’re talking about the Three Bs of baby prep—and no, it’s not bottles, bibs, and burp cloths (though those are important too). We’re diving into the fun, and the slightly stressful parts of prepping for parenthood: babymoons, baby showers, and birth plans.

First up: the babymoon—aka your last chance to sleep in, eat fancy food, drink hot coffee, and pee in peace. Then we tackle the baby shower—how to prep, create a registry, or skip it altogether (no judgment here). Finally, we get into the basics of the birth plan— we still have time, but have you started to discuss your birth preferences?