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The Best Way To Not Say or Do The Wrong Thing, At The Wrong Time, with Cathy Cioth

The Best Way To Not Say or Do The Wrong Thing, At The Wrong Time, with Cathy Cioth

Update: 2025-09-18
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ABOUT THE EPISODE:

We've all been there. A tense or heated conversation where something flies out of your mouth that you don't really mean, or you inflict your 'help' when it's not wanted or needed. You might, at times, find yourself solving a problem that has nothing to do with you, or you give well-intentioned advice to someone who will never, ever take it.

Enter our favorite Hopestream tool...the Lip Clip. A metaphorical device that prevents you from jumping in when you should really stay back, and gives you a magical opportunity to observe before acting. The problem is, when and how do you use the Lip Clip to its maximum effectiveness?

In this episode, you'll learn what situations the Lip Clip is best suited for, how to apply it so you get the most out of it, and, importantly, when and how not to use it. As always, Cathy and I give personal examples from our lives and you'll walk away with a clear idea of how you can put this powerful little tool to use with a challenging child, or anyone in your life who tends to trigger you to act in ways you'd rather not.

EPISODE RESOURCES:

Hopestream episode with Dr. Mark McConville - Getting Unstuck From Failure To Launch Mode (ep. 51)

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The Best Way To Not Say or Do The Wrong Thing, At The Wrong Time, with Cathy Cioth

The Best Way To Not Say or Do The Wrong Thing, At The Wrong Time, with Cathy Cioth

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