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The Cost of the Call: When Choosing Yourself Feels Like Losing Everything

The Cost of the Call: When Choosing Yourself Feels Like Losing Everything

Update: 2025-10-28

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This week, I’m bringing you into something that’s been sitting heavy on my heart. It’s a conversation I’ve touched on before, but never like this. I want to talk about what it really costs to follow your soul calls. Not the pretty version, but the actual lived experience. The kind that feels like your life is unraveling and you’re not sure who you’ll be…

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The Cost of the Call: When Choosing Yourself Feels Like Losing Everything

The Cost of the Call: When Choosing Yourself Feels Like Losing Everything

Britta Jo