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The Keys To A Resilient Divorce -  Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure

The Keys To A Resilient Divorce - Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure

Update: 2025-07-29
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In this raw and honest episode, Faisal, Chuck, and Ari dive deep into the messy reality of divorce for Nice Guys. If you're going through a divorce or recently divorced, this conversation will hit you right in the gut — and then lift you back up. 

We explore:

What it means to "Nice Guy your divorce" (and why we all do it)
The brutal truth about caretaking your ex while your world falls apart
Why you oscillate between "let me help you" and "screw you" during divorce
How fear of conflict keeps you trapped in financial and emotional quicksand

The shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure (when it's actually a gift)

Why jumping into rebound relationships is emotional suicide
The three pillars of becoming a Resilient Man: Reframe, Reclaim, Rebuild
How to use your divorce as a catalyst for the biggest growth of your life
Why learning to be alone is the secret to never being a Nice Guy again
Whether you're in the thick of divorce proceedings, recently single, or supporting a friend through this journey — this episode offers hope, practical wisdom, and a roadmap to your most powerful chapter yet.
Divorce isn't the end of your story. It's the beginning of who you were meant to become.

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Connect with Faisal Khokhar:
https://masculine.co/
https://instagram.com/coachfaisalk
https://youtube.com/@coachfaisalk

Connect with Chuck Chapman: 
https://chuckchapman.com/
https://instagram.com/chuckchapman.ma/

Connect with Dr. Ari Graff:
https://drarigraff.com/
https://draribgraff.com/register [divorce recovery program]
https://youtube.com/@AriGraff

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The Keys To A Resilient Divorce -  Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure

The Keys To A Resilient Divorce - Shame and stigma that makes divorce feel like failure

Faisal Khokhar, Ari Graff & Chuck Chapman