What happens when the lights fade, the crowd disappears, and you no longer recognize who you’ve become?

In this soul-expanding episode, former EDM DJ Jared Lucas, known to the world as “Kap Slap” opens up about the moment he hit an identity crisis… and the journey that followed.

From headlining festivals, to opening for widely recognized DJ’s like Tiesto/ Steve Aoki, and then to chasing external validation to letting go of the persona he built… this conversation is about ego death, identity unraveling, and choosing truth over performance.

In This Episode We Cover:

• The hidden cost of living for validation
• The masculine myth of “keeping it together”
• The path of right action and what it really means
• How metaphysics and quantum choice play into healing
• Why slowing down became Jared’s biggest act of courage

You’ll also hear his deeper personal reflections, nervous system recovery methods, his MBTI personality type and how Jared now lives and coaches with Aletheia unfoldment principles in Asheville, NC.

Whether you’re a high performer in transition, a man silently struggling, or someone awakening to something deeper… This one will hit your soul.

4 Key Trail Markers:

1. Jared’s journey from fame-fueled DJ to embodied coach reveals the power of surrendering identity.
2. Why “win-win” choices aren’t just spiritual, they’re practical for long-term alignment.
3. What quantum physics and metaphysics reveal about making choices that transform your life.
4. How emotional digestion, nervous system attunement, and present-moment awareness saved his future.

LISTEN IF YOU’VE EVER:

• Felt stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming.
• Wondered if success without peace is worth it.
• Wanted to live from your values, not just for them

If Jared's story resonates & you'd like to learn more about him then check out:

The Anti-Fragile Heart Retreat LIVE Retreat & Coaching: https://linktr.ee/jaredclucas

His Music: https://soundcloud.com/kapslap

Follow him: @kapslap

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