What does it truly mean to be a man in today's evolving society?  

Join us as we unpack this intricate question with returning guest Iain Thatcher, an expert coach specializing in modern masculinity. Iain offers invaluable insights into how men can interpret the mixed messages they receive and shares actionable advice on how they can be their best selves amid these changes. We delve into the unique challenges middle-aged men encounter, discussing everything from emotional labor in relationships to the mental workload of managing household tasks. 

How should men respectfully respond to a female colleague's noticeable cosmetic changes without crossing lines? Iain sheds light on the complexities of workplace interactions and dating, particularly for men navigating post-divorce life. He emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence and the ability to read social cues, which are crucial for forming respectful and meaningful connections. Finally, we discuss the importance of community and support for men, especially those going through midlife transitions. Iain explains the benefits of coaching and therapy, encouraging men to seek growth and improvement without feeling inherently problematic. Listen in for practical tips for men to invest in themselves and maintain their passions, paving the way for more fulfilling personal and professional lives.    

In this episode: 

• Navigating modern masculinity and societal expectations with Ian Thatcher's insights  


• Emotional labor in relationships and the hidden mental workload   


• Balancing respect and acknowledgment in workplace interactions and comments   


• Challenges in post-divorce dating, emotional intelligence   


• Reading social cues and asking for consent in dating scenarios   


• Balancing career success with personal availability in relationships   


• Addressing men's midlife challenges, health issues, and aging gracefully   


• Building male community through shared hobbies and online groups   


• Exploring coaching and therapy 


• Ian Thatcher's coaching approach and its benefits for middle-aged men   


• Encouraging self-investment and the power of community support 


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ThirtyFiveSixtyFour is a podcast for listeners between the ages of 35 and 64. Available on all major podcast platforms, the show offers an engaging journey through the various challenges and experiences of midlife. ThirtyFiveSixtyFour presents a distinct departure from the traditional midlife crisis storyline. Instead, it champions the perspective that midlife should be viewed as a period marked by play, discovery, transformation and possibility. With new episodes released weekly, ThirtyFiveSixtyFour is positioned to become one of the fastest-growing podcasts of the year, providing both valuable insights and entertainment for those in the middle.    So, subscribe and get ready to join show host Karen and the ThirtyFiveSixtyFour regulars for both serious and fun conversations around living middle age to the fullest. After all, it’s not too late. You’re not too old. And you’re definitely NOT dead. 

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