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The Pain Wasn’t Your Fault; But the Healing Is Your Responsibility

The Pain Wasn’t Your Fault; But the Healing Is Your Responsibility

Update: 2025-09-22
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Welcome back to Metanoia Madness

the podcast where we don’t just grow,

we take accountability for the life we’re building,

even when all we were handed was rubble.

I’m Nicholas, and today’s episode is for the part of you that wonders if your past will always define you.

The part that didn’t choose trauma, instability, or abandonment

but is ready to stop living as though those wounds are permanent.

Because here’s the truth: the pain wasn’t your fault.

But the healing? That part is on you.

Not because you should have to fix what you didn’t break.

But because waiting for rescue will keep you small.

And you weren’t born to stay small.

In this episode we’ll talk about:

• why your circumstances are where you started, not who you are

• how to move from blame into ownership without bypassing the pain

• what happens after you stop waiting for someone to save you

• breaking the inherited stories that don’t belong to you

• and choosing healing without waiting for permission

This isn’t about blame. It’s about freedom.

It’s about remembering you are not your trauma

you are the author of what comes next.

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The Pain Wasn’t Your Fault; But the Healing Is Your Responsibility

The Pain Wasn’t Your Fault; But the Healing Is Your Responsibility