The Session: When Our Adult Children Walk Away From The Faith

By Pamela Henkelman of FamilyChristian.com

Parent Feelings When Their Children Turn From the Faith

• Grief
• Confusion 
• Fear
• Relational Depression 

Parents Should Prioritize:

• Love
• Empathy 
• Open Communication 
• Continue to be an Example
• Shame and Failure: Don't let shame paralyze you. It's important to address these feelings and remember that your child's choices are ultimately their own. 
• Fear and Anxiety: It's natural to worry about your child's future and well-being, but try to channel that worry into prayer rather than letting it control you. 

Parents Should Focus on Maintaining a Healthy Relationship:

• Pray for Your Child: Continue to pray for your child's spiritual journey, seeking God's guidance for both of you. 
• Deepen Your Faith: Use this as an opportunity to deepen your own relationship with God and strengthen your faith. 
• Seek Support: Connect with other parents who have experienced similar situations. Sharing experiences and finding support can be incredibly helpful. 
• Live Your Faith: Continue to live your life according to your beliefs, demonstrating the love and grace of Christ. 

 Focus on Your Own Spiritual Growth:

• Pray for Your Child: Continue to pray for your child's spiritual journey, seeking God's guidance for both of you. 
• Deepen Your Faith: Use this as an opportunity to deepen your own relationship with God and strengthen your faith. 
• Seek Support: Connect with other parents who have experienced similar situations. Sharing experiences and finding support can be incredibly helpful. 
• Live Your Faith: Continue to live your life according to your beliefs, demonstrating the love and grace of Christ. 

Trust in God's Plan:

• God's Sovereignty: Remember that God is sovereign and has a plan for your child's life, even if it's not what you expected. 
• Patience and Perseverance: Be patient and persistent in your prayers and love for your child. Trust that God is working. 

Focus on the Future: Don't dwell on the past or allow bitterness to take root. Focus on the present and trust that God will guide you both. 

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