It seems to me that perspective is far more important than reality. I might even go so far to say that "reality" is 100% perspective, and the idea that there is an "objective" reality is only useful in theological discussions and has no place in every day life. Let me ask you a question to ground this topic in more practical terms. What would you have done if you (as a high school junior) found out your family was splitting down the middle and you were going to be moving to a new school in a different state....and...."oh by the way......you and your 2 sisters are going to live in a campground...in a camper". Well...what would you do? In this episode I'll tell you what "I" did when my parents told me that very thing. Ahhh....life....it truly has limitless capacity to challenge and surprise. :-)