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The Truth About What You Should Spend On A First Date

The Truth About What You Should Spend On A First Date

Update: 2025-10-22
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Modern dating has become a game of expectations — but real relationships are built on balance and mutual respect. In this video, we break down exactly how much men should spend on a first date, why the 5% rule makes sense, and how to protect your time, money, and peace from unrealistic dating culture. Whether you’re a man trying to avoid “free meal” dates or a woman who values effort but not entitlement — this episode gives both sides a reality check rooted in emotional maturity and self-respect. Timestamps:


– Intro: The dating cost debate


– The psychology behind first-date spending


– Why 5% of your weekly income is the magic number


– What expectations need to be discussed before the date


– Gen Z’s “free meal” dating culture explained


– Why financial boundaries protect your emotional health


– Final thoughts: When money meets maturity


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The Truth About What You Should Spend On A First Date

The Truth About What You Should Spend On A First Date

Jeff Barnes