In this episode of The Daring Well Podcast, I sit down with Jeff Patterson, founder of the Northwest Fighting Arts Academy and creator of The Yielding Warrior Method. With over 36 years in meditative and martial arts, Jeff shares how his journey began in an unexpected place — a boxing gym — and ultimately led to a lifelong mission to help others cultivate clarity, presence, and performance through the meditative arts.

We explore the three pillars of yielding — physical, mental, and emotional — and how they help us navigate stress, conversations, relationships, burnout, and even high-performance environments. Whether you're an athlete, entrepreneur, leader, or someone seeking deeper peace, this episode offers practical tools to reconnect with your body, regulate your energy, and build a sustainable inner practice.

From the seven-link system to the five paths of meditation, Jeff breaks down big concepts into accessible wisdom that anyone can apply. We end with the unforgettable Stonecutter Story — a powerful lesson in consistency and transformation beneath the surface.

🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• How boxing unexpectedly led Jeff into meditation and Tai Chi
• The real definition of yielding — and why it’s a strategy, not surrender
• The 3 pillars of yielding: physical, mental, & emotional awareness
• Why high performers burn out — and how meditation helps regulate energy
• The five paths of a meditation journey (performance, therapeutic, medical, philosophical, spiritual)
• What it means to tap into flow state — and how to access it
• Why morning rituals are more powerful than routines
• The Stonecutter Story — a metaphor for consistency and unseen transformation
• How meditation helps you reconnect with who you truly are
• Ways to begin your own meditation practice — with purpose & structure

🧘‍♂️ The Three Pillars of Yielding - What It Teaches

Physical Yielding | Body awareness, breath, balance, responsiveness
Mental Yielding | Communication, negotiation, emotional intelligence
Emotional Yielding | Inner regulation, response > reaction, clarity

📌 Quote Worth Remembering

“It wasn’t that strike that broke the stone —
it was the thousands of strikes before it.”

— The Stonecutter Story (Jeff Patterson)

🔗 Connect with Jeff Patterson

Visit: https://theyieldingwarrior.com/
📚 Free book :https://book.theyieldingwarrior.com/new-free-plus-shipping
🎥 Online programs + two-week free trial
📍 In-person academy located in Portland, Oregon

💭 Reflective Question for Listeners

What might change in your life if you started each day with presence instead of pressure?

🧭 Episode Timestamps

Time          Topic

00:10:58 | Jeff’s boxing story & surprising advice
00:13:30 | What is a Yielding Warrior?
00:19:10 | Burnout & h

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