Words hold a lot of power for children, they shape who they are and who they become. Yet 41% of children experience verbal abuse by adults, which can lead to lasting damage. Jessica Bondy, founder of Words Matter, discusses how by using positive, encouraging language we can build a child’s confidence and help them flourish. Let’s build children up with our words, not knock them down. Words matter.

Read Jessica’s article here:

https://thevoiceofearlychildhood.com/the-power-of-words-how-adult-language-shapes-a-childs-future/

This episode is in partnership with Words Matter:

At Words Matter, we are committed to creating societal and behavioural change by addressing and ending childhood verbal abuse. We know that most adults don’t intend to harm children with their words - but many underestimate the lasting impact they can have. Help us inspire action and make a difference to children’s lives today and for years to come.

Visit www.wordsmatter.org for support, guidance, and resources to help create a world where children hear the words that build them up – not knock them down.

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Episode break down:

00:00 – Welcome!
02:00 – Ending verbal abuse of children by adults
05:00 – What do you want your legacy to be?
08:00 – The power of reaching out & collaboration
10:00 – Research into child verbal abuse
11:30 – Unintentional abuse with huge impacts
14:00 – Top 5 most hurtful phrases
15:00 – The most helpful phrases: Growth mindset
17:00 – 5 ways of supporting children through our language
20:00 – Not criticising the person but the behaviour
21:40 – The power of the pause
22:20 – Repair: It is never too late to put things right
24:00 – Breaking the cycle of abusive language
29:00 – Triggers from childhood
33:00 – Self-protection & fight or flight
35:00 – Children remember how adults label them
36:00 – Supporting children with neurodivergence
39:00 – Verbal abuse is not just about shouting
39:45 – Reflections to takeaway & further resources

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