What if finding love wasn’t the hard part—what if keeping it was where everything fell apart?

In this brutally honest, eye-opening analysis of Logan Ury’s How to Not Die Alone, we break down the final and most important part of modern dating: what happens after the match, the first date, the spark. This isn’t about butterflies. It’s about emotional discipline, daily design, and the sobering truth that love isn’t a feeling—it’s a decision you make again and again. From sliding into cohabitation without a plan, to staying too long in the wrong relationship, to building a long-term bond that actually works, this is where dating advice meets behavioral science and spiritual warfare.

VIDEO INDEX

00:00 – One Click Away from a Crisis
01:01 – Dating Is Broken and You’re Mutating
01:42 – The Burden of Too Much Freedom
02:38 – Swiping Is Killing Your Capacity to Choose
03:33 – You’re Shopping for Love Like a Gadget
04:22 – Instagram Is Gaslighting Your Heart
05:03 – You've Never Seen Real Love—And It Shows
05:57 – Your Love Life Is a Predictable Failure Pattern
06:45 – Romanticizers: Fantasy Is Sabotaging You
07:28 – Maximizers: Your Perfectionism Is Your Prison
08:12 – Hesitaters: You’re Not Growing, You’re Hiding
09:03 – Expectation Rot Is Why You’re Alone
09:56 – Attachment Theory Is Your Dating Manual
10:38 – The Addictive Loop That Feels Like Love
11:28 – Build, Don’t Swipe: Architecture Over Fantasy
12:06 – Welcome to the Behavioral Battlefield
13:08 – You Have No Idea What You Actually Want
14:03 – The Apps Are Using You, Not Helping You
14:59 – You’re Pitching, Not Connecting
16:02 – You’re Dating a Fantasy You Invented
16:55 – Your Filters Are Blocking Your Future
17:46 – The Paradox of Choice Is Melting Your Brain
18:43 – How to Swipe Like a Scientist
19:37 – Why Meeting IRL Is the New Rebellion
20:30 – The Best Dating App Is Your Social Circle
21:23 – How to Flirt Without Emojis
22:16 – Stop Texting—Ask Them Out
23:08 – Real Relationships Are Where the Work Begins
24:04 – Why You Run When Things Get Real
24:51 – DTR Isn’t Desperate—It’s Strategic
25:39 – Are You Sliding Into Relationships?
26:32 – Moving In Won’t Save You
27:11 – Marriage by Inertia Will Haunt You
28:03 – You’re Not Trapped—You’re Afraid
28:42 – How to Break Up Without Burning Down
29:31 – The Science of Getting Over Someone
30:16 – Engagement Anxiety Is Normal—Act Anyway
30:53 – Don’t Marry a Person—Marry a Pattern
31:40 – Long-Term Love Is Built, Not Felt
32:16 – Adaptability Is the Secret Ingredient
33:11 – Do a Relationship Audit Before It’s Too Late
33:45 – Commitment Is a Decision You Keep Making
34:20 – If It All Faded, Would You Notice?

No filters. No fairy tales. Just raw, necessary insight for anyone who's sick of almost-relationships and ready to build something real.

If you're not afraid to face your patterns and evolve—watch this.

And don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. We're not here to help you find love. We're here to help you stop f***ing it up.

#relationships #breakups #datingadvice #emotionalintelligence #commitment

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