It’s STILL Pride, bitches! And in this episode, the Matts tackle the complicated subject of TOXIC MASCULINITY.

What is it? How have we been impacted by it? What does it mean to be a “real man” and what does authenticity have to do with it?

And the BIG question: How are we STILL changing ourselves or our behavior (trying to be more or less masculine than we actually are) to be accepted by those who, once upon a time, told us we weren’t real men?

Matt H will tell you how his perception of his ideal gay man has changed. And Matt B treads on thin ice while trying like hell not to be offensive as he describes
what he believes is a form of toxic femininity in gay men.

Looking for links to the content mentioned in this episode? Check the links below!

For more bitchy wisdom, follow on ⁠INSTAGRAM⁠ & ⁠TIKTOK⁠

To watch the podcast, follow them on ⁠YouTube⁠

Or check out the ⁠How to Find (& Keep) a Gay Man⁠  website.

LINKS TO CONTENT FROM THIS EPISODE:

Let There Be (She) Music Video, Matt’s new drag queen anthem with Blair St. Clair of RuPaul’s Drag Race: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jdPMpEeVIe0

Interview with Fox News about Let There Be (She): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iZTHQe7kedw

Podcast appearance on Dumb, Gay Politics, with Brandy Howard and Julie Goldman

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dumb-gay-politics/id1181557793?i=1000617801060

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0MJUFldqTubiOvm7b8s4tS?si=6686209ff6dd449f

Let There Be (She) song recording: https://open.spotify.com/track/0P4E1zT6grYIsajzdU4hEO?si=9eed571b2a634b20