Traffic Jams & Temper Tantrums: The Psychology of Road Rage
Description
Ah, the sound of the modern battlefield: the morning commute. Welcome back to Planting Thoughts, where we usually explore mindfulness, joy, and inner peace—but this week, we’re trading “zen” for “zoom” and diving headfirst into the raw, unfiltered emotion that is road rage.
In this fiery and fast-paced episode, Mike kicks things off with some hilariously dramatic shouting from behind the wheel (yes, bleeped for your safety), before pulling the car over—figuratively—and walking us through the real psychology behind our traffic-induced tantrums.
We explore:
The Frustration-Aggression Hypothesis and why getting cut off feels so personal
How stress, deindividuation, and attribution bias fuel our fury
The surprising ways your personality traits—like neuroticism or conscientiousness—might affect how you react on the road
You'll also hear two powerful and relatable stories from our guests, who share their own red-light moments, the emotional fallout, and what they’ve learned about themselves along the way.
Mike balances the chaos with real solutions, offering practical tips to chill behind the wheel, from mindfulness to cognitive reframing—and even a shoutout to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for those who feel their anger’s driving them a little too far.
🚗 Fasten your seatbelt.
😤 Take a deep breath (if you're not stuck in gridlock).
🧠 And get ready to explore the psychology of why that guy in the minivan made you scream today.
Whether you're a road warrior, a passive passenger, or someone who’s screamed at a roundabout once or twice (no judgment), this episode will have you laughing, learning, and maybe even cooling off the next time someone forgets to use their blinker.