Introduction

We are talking about unity! Last week we talked about how important it was to work together. God has designed Christianity to be done with others and never intended it to be done alone. It is meant to be done together as a family, as a church, as a community, and as a nation of people who believe in Jesus!

The absence of disagreements is not a testimony to the world—the testimony is the manner in which we deal with disagreements. Therefore, we need to maturely disagree!

Scripture Reading

Romans 14:1-13 – The Danger of Criticism

Accept other believers who are weak in faith, and don’t argue with them about what they think is right or wrong…
(Full passage: Romans 14:1-13)

Main Points

1. Jesus is enough!

• Eternal life comes only through Jesus—not our convictions or deeds.





• Convictions, doctrines, and obedience matter, but they do not save us.





• Salvation is by grace through faith in Christ alone.

Supporting Scripture:

• Luke 18 – The tax collector’s prayer for mercy





• 2 Corinthians 12:8-10 – “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.”

2. There are infinite things to disagree on!

• From food, to worship days, to doctrines, to personal convictions—even the color of the carpet!





• Disagreements are inevitable, but they should not divide us.





• Stand firm on the core truths of the Gospel, but show grace in non-essentials.

Supporting Scripture:

• 2 Timothy 2:23-26 – “Don’t get involved in foolish, ignorant arguments that only start fights.”

3. The way we disagree should be a witness!

• The absence of disagreement is not reality; maturity in disagreement is the true testimony.





• How we handle conflict impacts those inside and outside the church.





• Show kindness, forgiveness, and grace.

Supporting Scripture:

• Ephesians 4:30-32 – “Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger… Instead, be kind to each other.”

Closing

We can’t expect each other to be perfect, but we can expect each other to love, support, and be mature in our disagreements. This will be one of the greatest testimonies you ever give!

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