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Relationships are complex, and understanding them can often feel overwhelming. 

In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of love, connection, and sexual fluidity with Dr. Frankie Bashan, a clinical psychologist, board-certified sex therapist, and relationship expert with over two decades of experience.

Dr. Frankie shares her expert insights into the challenges people face in their partnerships, shedding light on the critical question: when do we fight for love, and when is it time to seek assistance?

As the CEO & Founder of LittleGayBook.com and LittleBlackBookMatchmaking.com, Dr. Frankie has spent her career connecting people—both heterosexual and LGBTQIA+—through personalized matchmaking and exclusive singles events, helping thousands find meaningful relationships. 

She emphasizes the essential role of communication in relationships and explains how mastering the art of expressing ourselves can profoundly impact intimacy and connection.

Dr. Frankie has also appeared on MTV's hit dating show "Are You the One?" and shared her expertise on The Howard Stern Show, showcasing her deep understanding of relationship dynamics and communication on major national platforms. 

Throughout the discussion, we explore how empathy, curiosity, and healthy communication can help couples navigate challenges. Dr. Frankie also touches on the nuances of passive-aggressive behavior, emotional landscapes, and when seeking professional help is vital for growth. Relationships are hard, but with the right tools and commitment from both partners, they are worth the effort.

With Dr. Frankie’s unique combination of formal training and emotional intelligence, we gain valuable strategies for fostering emotional connection and relationship success. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this episode offers practical advice that anyone can implement.

Follow Dr. Frankie Bashan:

• Instagram: @drfrankiebashan
• YouTube: Little Gay Book Channel
• Website: Little Gay Book
• Website: Little Black Book Matchmaking
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