Welcome to the Heal and Restore Podcast with Randy and Cathy Boyd—where we dive into real conversations that help you heal, grow, and strengthen your relationships.

In today’s practical and heartfelt episode, we’re talking about “Unspoken Expectations: How Hidden Assumptions Hurt Marriages.”

Every couple carries expectations into marriage—but not every couple speaks them out loud. Too often, we assume our spouse “should just know,” and when those unspoken assumptions aren’t met, they turn into disappointment, frustration, or even resentment. The truth is, it’s not always the expectations themselves that hurt us—it’s the silence around them.

We’ll unpack how hidden assumptions quietly chip away at connection, why they so often go unnoticed, and how learning to express them openly can protect trust and intimacy. More importantly, we’ll share faith-rooted tools you can start using today to communicate expectations with clarity, listen with empathy, and move toward agreement instead of frustration.

If you’ve ever felt let down because your spouse didn’t do what you “thought they would,” or you’ve struggled with resentment over unmet needs, this episode is for you.

If it speaks to your heart, we invite you to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who’s ready to strengthen their marriage.

Love grows in the light—so let’s bring our expectations out of hiding and build a stronger foundation together.