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Values - What you Say vs What you Do

Values - What you Say vs What you Do

Update: 2025-11-07
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In this conversation, Russ Haworth explores the intricate relationship between family values and the underlying needs that drive them. He emphasises that when families disagree over values, they are often expressing unmet or conflicting needs.

For instance, valuing loyalty may indicate a need for security, while valuing freedom may reflect a desire for autonomy. This understanding can transform family dynamics and improve communication.

Takeaways

When you say you value loyalty, you're expressing a need for security.

Valuing freedom indicates a need for autonomy.

Disagreements over values often stem from unmet needs.

A founder's value of hard work may hide a need for control.

Next-gen family members may value creativity for self-expression.

Understanding these needs can change family conversations.

Neither perspective is wrong; they reflect different positions.

Values are often a reflection of deeper needs.

Communication improves when we understand underlying needs.

Recognising generational differences can enhance family dynamics.


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