In this canonical episode, we dive into the mental 'headspace' that constitutes actual good vibing vs 'fake contrived' vibing. We cover how this makes up the majority of the value that we offer to her, from her perspective. We cover these inner focus choices that we don't even know we are making, and how to be aware of them in order to place that focus in the correct place. This episode lays the foundation on how we use Vibe and our projection of us via it to drive the majority of our game offering. We also discuss at the end the 'downward spiral' that happens when we worry we may lose a girl, what actually is happening, and how we can interrupt that spiral to recover.