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Weirdly Personal: The Arguments That Actually Improve Your Life

Weirdly Personal: The Arguments That Actually Improve Your Life

Update: 2025-12-02
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What if the arguments you’re avoiding/repeating/stuck in… are the exact ones that could make your life better?


In this week’s Weirdly Personal, I’m getting into the fights we should be having in our thirties — and the ones we can finally stop wasting energy on.


After spending way too much time arguing with men on the internet (productive? questionable), I realised just how much of our energy goes into the wrong conflicts -  and how powerful the right arguments can be.


Arguments aren’t about winning; they’re about understanding, clarity and connection.


In this episode, I break down:

✨ The five arguments you never need to have again

✨ The fights that actually improve your life - values, alignment, accountability and equality

✨ How to spot the real issue underneath a conflict

✨ How to argue in a way that brings you closer, not further apart


If you’ve ever replayed a conversation 47 times, avoided a necessary conflict, or found yourself knee-deep in a pointless debate, this one will shift how you think about arguing in your thirties.


Listen, reflect, and maybe send this to someone you’ve been avoiding a conversation with.


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Weirdly Personal: The Arguments That Actually Improve Your Life

Weirdly Personal: The Arguments That Actually Improve Your Life

Lydia Vornweg