Sometimes you have to be taken to a place where everything that you know about yourself and how you have chosen to interact with the world is smashed into smithereens, crumbles and is pulverized into dust and falls away. Health, wealth, fame, love, career, money, relationships, home, possessions, your tribe etc., all turn to dust and when they fall away, and are blown away, you are left bear, afraid and wondering, “Why? Why? Why?” Or “I didn’t know it was going to be like this! What the hell just happened? Oh God, how am I going to get back to normal? How will I get through this? What’s going to happen to me now?” Every heart wrenching question that continuously runs through your mind like it's stuck on a permanent wash cycle is normal. Once you’ve asked those questions and received your answers that tend to bring you back to the same questions, there is one other question that must be asked. But we’ll get to that.