In this final episode of Season 2, we return to our signature Unfinished Business format, bringing together the conversations that refused to be neatly stitched up.

We open with reflections on the mixed reactions to our episode on mixed race identity, which sparked far more commentary than we anticipated on social media - including a sharp intervention from the brilliant BBC 1Xtra presenter and commentator Richie Brave, who stepped in with timely analysis just as things were getting hot in the kitchen.

From there, we weave together three of the season’s most urgent themes to ask: What links queer domestic violence, the raising of boys, and the anger directed at migrants and asylum seekers?

Aiwan reflects on the silence around queer relationships in DV spaces - why they’re rarely addressed in mainstream narratives - and the frustration of being asked to speak on the issue in professional spaces when her expertise lies elsewhere. Tamanda builds on this by connecting anti-immigrant rhetoric to violence against women and girls, drawing on the recent statement by 100 women’s rights groups that challenges far-right attempts to scapegoat migrants and asylum seekers.

Along the way, we share stories from ourselves and our listeners: being caught in Millwall football crowds on matchday, facing down misogyny from schoolboys, and healing from trauma as a teacher. The through-line is patriarchy and masculinity - how harm is taught, inherited, and weaponised from the playground to the political stage.

As Season 2 closes, we carry forward the reflections of two teachers who sent us a powerful voicenote exchange: Who teaches men to harm, where are we right now, and what would it take to break the cycle?

In this episode:

• Mixed reactions to our episode on mixed race identity
• Why queer DV remains invisible in mainstream narratives
• The exhaustion of lived experience testimony, and why healing is not the same as harm
• Patriarchy, masculinity and power, from the playground to the political sphere
• Sister Space, Southall Black Sisters & the 100 women’s rights groups statement against far-right rhetoric
• Stories from ourselves and our listeners: Millwall football crowds, classroom misogyny, and teacher trauma
• How much are we really rewriting gender scripts in schools today?
• Reflections on Season 2 - what we’ve learned, and what we’re carrying into the future

Please rate, review and subscribe for weekly episodes.

Connect with us on:

• TikTok
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• AiAi Studios
• Roots & Rigour

This is an AiAi Studios Production

©AiAi Studios 2025

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.