What is the Bully Victim Cycle?
Update: 2025-07-17
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How do victims of bullying sometimes become bullies themselves? Let’s break the cycle.
In this episode of the Bully Proof Podcast, we’re diving into the bully-victim cycle, which is a pattern where kids who’ve been bullied begin to lash out at others.
This cycle of retaliation and desensitization is more common than you might think, but with the right tools, we can interrupt it early and create a safer space for everyone.
We discuss:
- Why hurt kids sometimes hurt others
- How repeated exposure to bullying can make kids numb to its harm
- Early signs a victim might be shifting into aggressive behavior
- Why pulling kids aside isn’t always the best solution and what works better
- Strategies for schools and parents to support kids and break the cycle
This is a must-listen for educators, parents, and anyone who works with kids.
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