Why does attraction fade… and what can we do about it?  In this episode we get real about attraction in long-term relationships. The spark doesn’t always burn forever, and losing sexual interest doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed. We talk about why attraction naturally shifts over time and how couples can ignite intimacy.

We explore:

• Why attraction fades in relationships





• The 4 types of intimacy (and why they matter)





• Sexless marriages and normalizing libido changes





• What erodes desire over time





• How to bring spark, novelty, and connection back

Join us for a real conversation on attraction, intimacy, and what keeps the spark alive over time.

Today's Hosts:

• Matt Landsiedel





• Michael DiIorio

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Chapters

• (00:00:00 ) - When Attraction Fades in Gay Relationships
• (00:04:24 ) - 4 Types of Intimate Relationship
• (00:10:11 ) - How To Keep The Fire In Your Relationships
• (00:15:06 ) - What Causes Attraction To Fizzle For You
• (00:18:01 ) - How to Keep the Sex Fire Alive in Your Marriage
• (00:21:21 ) - 3 Tips For Keeping Intimate Relationships Alive
• (00:23:47 ) - Gay Men's Brotherhood: Sparking Your Love Life