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When Childlessness Fuels Self-Blame About Everything

When Childlessness Fuels Self-Blame About Everything

Update: 2025-10-21
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Have you ever found yourself taking the blame for things that were never really in your control?


 


In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller opens up about the quiet but powerful weight of self-blame that so many childless women carry - not just about infertility, but across every corner of life.


Through honest reflection and heartfelt conversation, Gail explores how societal silence around childlessness often fuels this blame, making it easy to believe that you’re the problem when you never were.


In this episode, you’ll learn:



  • How self-blame can quietly shape more than just your thoughts on childlessness

  • Why society’s silence can make grief feel like a personal fault

  • How self-blame creates the illusion of control in the face of loss

  • Why your worth extends far beyond any perceived failure


If you’ve ever felt like not having children makes you less worthy, this episode will remind you that your value has never depended on motherhood - and that kindness toward yourself is where healing truly begins.


Subscribe now for real talk, compassion, and hope delivered every Tuesday.


 


Resources:

Finding You: Beyond Motherhood Group Coaching Program coming soon! Join the waitlist: https://path-onward.kit.com/8d4b621a3b 

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Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/whenbeingchildlessisntbychoice/


Stay connected with us:

Dr. Gail Miller: https://pathonward.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/childlesspathonward/ 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@pathonwardlifecoaching 

Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/80-when-childlessness-fuels-self-blame-about-everything/

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When Childlessness Fuels Self-Blame About Everything

When Childlessness Fuels Self-Blame About Everything

Gail Miller