Brittani Ard, host of You Probably Think This Story's About You, joins Jake and Michele on lovelustfridays for a raw and thoughtful conversation about trauma, relationships, and the emotional weight of storytelling. She opens up about her transition from a career in architecture to podcasting, and the lessons she's learned along the way. The discussion dives into the complexities of dating in midlife—particularly for strong, independent women—touching on breakups, emotional boundaries, and the process of unintentionally emasculating men. Brit also reflects on how independence can sometimes hinder connection, and why taking small, intentional steps back into the dating world can be so valuable.



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Brittani Ard  – Links

Website: https://brittaniard.com/

Podcast: “You Probably Think This Story’s About You”

Apple Podcasts

Spotify Podcasts

Amazon Music

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/brittani.ard/



Discussion Links 

https://www.thehotline.org/



Series Links

lovelustfear

https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/

lovelustfridays

https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridays

Jake Deptula

www.instagram.com/jaked3000

Michele Locke

https://www.michelelocke.com/

https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Haley Gray | Producer & Researcher

https://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearch

www.HaleyGrayResearch.com 

National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)

Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)

Text: START to 88788 

https://www.thehotline.org/

https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline

https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/



guest + story | submission information 

If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.

E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com

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submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear



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