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When Everything Feels Like a Misunderstanding

When Everything Feels Like a Misunderstanding

Update: 2025-11-19
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Abusers often hide behind confusion — denying intent, twisting reality, and framing your hurt as an overreaction. What starts as a simple disagreement turns into you questioning your memory, your emotions, and your sanity. 

I share how this pattern plays out in everyday moments, from small promises broken to emotional gaslighting that keeps survivors trapped in cycles of guilt and self-doubt.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I don’t even know what’s real anymore,” this episode will help you understand why — and remind you that what you feel is valid, even when someone insists it’s not.

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When Everything Feels Like a Misunderstanding

When Everything Feels Like a Misunderstanding

Jessica Knight