When Nothing Changes But Time

When Nothing Changes But Time

Update: 2025-11-10
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The Five-Year Question: Break the Loop and Achieve Meaningful Growth with TFA 

Will your next five years be meaningful growth or just time passed? This self-help episode is the practical playbook for escaping the doom loop and creating an upward success cycle in life and finance.

Master the essential formula for change: Thoughts > Feelings > Actions (TFA). Keeping them the same guarantees stagnation. Learn to shift just one lever to build momentum—you must do it scared!

Hear our candid story of a five-year money conflict breakthrough (it took new actions). Discover why coaches are critical for surfacing blind spots and limiting beliefs. Friction is not failure; it's the signal your ceiling is about to become your new floor.

Takeaways:

  • The Five-Year Challenge: The ultimate wake-up call: Don't wake up stagnant and full of regret. Choose meaningful growth today.
  • The TFA Framework: Same TFA = Same Results. Change at least one lever (Thoughts, Feelings, or Actions) for change.
  • Action Before Readiness: Do it scared, do it now! Action creates clarity. Stepping before you feel ready builds the necessary proof.
  • Blind Spot Reality: You will never see your own blind spots. Outside voices (coaches) are essential for reframing limiting beliefs and interrupting stale patterns.
  • Growth is Tiered: When you hit a ceiling, retool your TFA. That ceiling becomes your new floor.
  • The Choice to Grow: Progress over comfort. Hard conversations unlock the leap—choose the challenge.

Ready to trade stagnation for an upward success cycle? Hit play.

  • How to achieve meaningful growth in the next five years.
  • The Thoughts Feelings Actions (TFA) model for change.
  • Why outside perspective is necessary for personal growth (blind spots).
  • How to stop repeating the same conflicts with your spouse.
  • Do it scared motto for procrastination.
  • What to do when your efforts only result in the passage of time.
  • How to turn a ceiling into a new floor.
  • "What is the Thoughts x Feelings x Actions (TFA) model for change?"
  • "Why is it hard to see your own blind spots in personal growth?"
  • "How does growth move in tiers, and what

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When Nothing Changes But Time

When Nothing Changes But Time

Jana and Jason Shelfer