When Swing Meets Poly — Scarlet on Jealousy, Therapy, and Kids (Part 2)

Update: 2025-10-07

Description

Scarlet is back for Part 2 to go deeper on what happens when swinging collides with polyamory. From EMDR and brainspotting to jealousy, veto power, and talking with kids, this conversation is candid, practical, and very real.

What EMDR and brainspotting actually do — and why they help after tough moments
Jealousy, reassurance rituals, and renegotiating time after a breakup
Veto power in the moment vs. pre-set rules (and how both can fail)
NRE (“new relationship energy”) versus long-term connection — spotting the difference
Individual therapy vs. couples/polycules: why one size doesn’t fit all
Kids & honesty: giving language for the world they already see at home

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Series: This is Part 2 of 2.Credits:• Hosts — The Professor, Mrs. Doll & Chuck D • Guest — Scarlet • Produced by — Down & Dirty Productions Company • Music — Victoria