When Your Child Acts Like Your Ex: How to Handle Triggers as a Divorced Mom

Update: 2025-07-02

Description

Is your child showing the same frustrating behaviors that once ended your marriage? You’re not alone—and no, you're not a bad mom for being triggered by it.

In this powerful solo episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, host Erica breaks down the emotional chaos that can happen when your child starts to mirror your ex—especially the toxic traits that contributed to your divorce.

🧠 Learn how to:

Recognize nervous system triggers (and why your body reacts this way)

Break generational patterns without blaming your child

Respond with calm instead of control

- Rewire your own responses and support your child in developing healthier behaviors

Whether you’re newly divorced or years out, these tools will help you create a safe space—for you and your child. This is the healing work. The breaking-free work. The “you’re not crazy” kind of work.

👇 Submit your questions for future episodes or join The Club—a private community for women navigating divorce, parenting, and personal growth:

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We talk about:

00:00 Introduction

01:27 Understanding the Child's Behavior

02:42 Parental Reactions and Triggers

08:29 Coping Mechanisms and Self-Regulation

12:07 Helping Your Child Through Emotional Challenges

15:11 Join the Crazy Ex-Wives Club

- 16:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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